You want to take your kids out but they’re playing so incredibly nicely. You know if you hazard into their ‘pretend’ territory, you will ruin this idyll, you will turn it to tears and tantrums…just by being you.
You want to take your kids out, but they’re being complete pills. Throwing tantrums, fighting, making a big deal out of nothing, intentionally setting verbal traps for you, etc. You can’t move them into public in this state.