You know, you never thought you’d have a child who lashed out physically as a way to combat overwhelming emotion and four-year-old strife, but here you are, at the school again, because your little one apparently has a healthy distaste for authority. You’ve told the kid a million times that she needs to use words. You’ve sympathized with her. You know how upset she can get. You’ve set up reward systems, you’ve disciplined, taken away privileges, and she’ll be fine for a few days, but it seems almost every week she forgets at least once and allows the HULK SMASH to come out. What do you do?